Fun is more important than meaning

2022-04-20 0 By

In the eyes of others, He Guangming is a would-be success, 18 years old, in that era of passion, the army is the envy of countless young people, he happily entered the barracks, a work is 20 years.His wife has a good job and his son is excellent. He wants to have a house and a car. He is not short of money and does not worry about food and drink.Early in the morning, he Guangming got up early as usual, dressed, walked to the Yellow River, began his morning exercise.He clearly remembered that what encouraged him to move forward was a passage from how the Steel was Tempered, which he had read in junior high school: “Life comes to a man only once.So that a man, looking back on his past life, without the regrets of wasted years, without the shame of a mean and petty past, may die saying: All my life and all my strength were given to the most precious cause of life — the liberation of mankind.”It was these words that encouraged him to grit his teeth and struggle to find the meaning of life.After retirement, He Guangming had time to look back at the road he had traveled, and suddenly found that there was really nothing to show off about the road he was proud of.He finally understood that there was no point in clinging to the meaning of life.Instead of doing the right thing that doesn’t interest you, be interesting.Would it not be ignorance to show off undeserving people?Make yourself into a person who has no expertise, no interests, no curiosity, no exploration, no excitement, the key is to make yourself lack of curiosity, lack of trial and error, lack of courage, no trial and error capital.A boring person must be a person without courage or brain.In fact, interest has nothing to do with ability, and courage;Try, is to experience, is to grow;Interest, is passion, is focus, is regardless of the gain and loss of investment.Boring people, often because of the outcome of the fear, reluctant to invest, they lose their own side readily available happiness.In fact, the happiness of life does not have to pay a lot, as long as focus on the process, dedicated efforts, into passion, enough.Winter, still in the river fishermen, winter swimmers, long-distance runners;The laughter in the humble house, the sound of lang Lang reading in the school, and the sound of rushing books under the cold lamp at night were ignored by them because of their concentration, passion and devotion.Our pursuit of material things stems from the fear of security.This inflates our desire for material things and makes us slaves to a sense of security.He Guangming seemed to suddenly understand: life is for happiness.Happy is the happiest.We used to think that having a house and a car is happiness, but it is not.In fact, happiness is unconditional. Having a house or a car does not necessarily lead to happiness.Happiness, security, victory and sense of belonging are all self-judgments deep in the heart. They are not given by others, nor can they be satisfied with material things, but are earned by ourselves. Happiness is a state of mind, a kind of self-judgment and an evaluation of one’s own expectations.Their busy, the original is to pursue the so-called sense of security, in order to please the eyes of others.And the sense of security is never given by others, but by their own fight;What do you care what others think of you?I live for myself, how can I live for the opinions of others?He Guangming suddenly understood that the pursuit of the so-called meaning of life, in fact, there is no meaning, rather than the pursuit of a little fun in life, to be an interesting person more affordable.And where’s my fun?Busy working all your life without any hobbies?He Guangming continues to look for his interest, ha ha, sports, embrace nature, indulge in the landscape, enjoy the beautiful rivers and mountains, appreciate the myriad changes, taste the way of nature, in the landscape to wash the mind and cultivate nature, fitness, isn’t the cheapest interest, the best practice?He Guangming stepped forward lighter and faster. He walked firmly into the distance…