Girls, after all, must learn to grow up

2022-05-08 0 By

When I was young, I thought girls had many privileges, such as wearing beautiful clothes and shoes and wearing beautiful hairpins…I just want to never grow too good.Father is responsible for earning money to support the family, mother is responsible for taking care of the family, the family lead a peaceful and beautiful.When I was in high school, my mother fell ill. After graduating from high school, I found a job near my home. On the one hand, I could take care of my mother easily, and on the other hand, I could take care of my family.Then mom died, and it felt like the sky was falling, and I was forced to grow up and support the family.After all, my father and brother are men, and many things cannot be done so carefully. I began to learn to clean the house and cook. Shopping online has changed from buying clothes and shoes to buying laundry detergent, toilet paper, and various household items.When I first learned to cook, it was a terrible process.A lot of dishes do not recognize the whole, do not know which roots, which leaves can eat, I also make a lot of jokes (mushroom roots can eat, I threw, celery leaves can eat, I threw and so on).Watching the video cooking, either put too much salt, or put too much dark soy sauce, thinking how others make beautiful and delicious, why can’t I?Slowly can take care of the home in perfect order, father and brother year-round work outside, meet holidays can come back together, see the home clean, food is not delicious, at least can eat, that pride is self-evident.Friends often come to the house for dinner. Before, they ordered take-out food, ordered five or six dishes, delivered to the house in half an hour, and finished eating.Later learned to cook, just understand that ordering take-out is really stupid, the amount is not much every time have to spend one or two hundred, and finally did not eat well.They like to see like magic, watching me put a dish on the table, straight call I change too big, like a changed person, maybe this is the price of growth.I used to be a loner, like to stay alone, a little not very social, working long hours, only to develop colleagues are very cute, there are delicious will share me, there are happy things to share, when the work can not finish, will help me to finish, just let me leave work early.I got to know my colleagues well.Learned to take care of other people’s emotions, learned to carry things on their own, learned to do not bother others, learned to disguise themselves, become more and more sensible…